LIFE , Friends and Fun

              In life , as we grow up ..Go to school , then college , then comes the job , then another job and then another .......we meet tons of people ..Some go on to become  acquaintances , some friends , some best friends , some foes and some well just nothing  and also we keep redefining the word " friendship " and " friends" !!              At some point of my life i felt that the number of friends you have mattered but as we grow older we realize " quality over quantity " ....today i have a handful of them to fall back on and i know come what may they have my back !! My definition of friendship has changed over the years ..i always had a bunch of people telling me how good i am , how entertaining , how i make them smile and how i can make them feel better instantly ..Then I realized  that friendship doesn't always mean telling each other how awesome you are but telling them how good people they can become , pointing out their flaws over their good ...telling them when they are behaving like bitches and bastards and make them better human beings !                     
Every relation we make in life is different and so are friends ..... i have had numerous each one of them who have taught me new things and made me see life in a new light .... a trbute to every one who has made me what i am !!

The finishes-your -sentences friend: 

we come across people having the same wavelength ... they can literally finish your sentences !!! they always know the right things to say , and know about stuff even if u dont about yourself ! they have the same random thoughts and they make you feel awesome ! Miss s , you are my soul sister !! my confidant !! life can get tough but i know you are tougher !!

opposite weirdo : 

you like white , then they like black ..you love spicy food , they love bland ... you love the summers and they love the rain ..you are opposite ....i am this forever talking kinda person and i have this friend who is focused , calm and composed  who been my rock through a lot of tough patches . Miss P, you are going to be an awesome doctor!!!

chadddi - buddy :  

They have seen you grow up ..Through your awkward teenage years , your first crush , heartbreaks , graduation ...EVERYTHING ! they are the only ones who know how goofy you can get no matter how old you get !!!Miss A and P , thank you for being there always !! Love you loads ! 

kid sister friend   : 

It is very important to have a friend which who you feel the older sister types ...I can give my advice and make her feel better on a bad day ...it makes me feel awesome!! Miss R, you are one of my best friends and thank you for being the sister I never had!!

The Therapist: 

The friend who will listen to all your problems and offer non judgemental advice ! you can talk anything under the sun and feel instantly better ... i am blessed to have two such friends ..s , you are one my best guy friends and though we live very far away now , i love the skype talks !! m , i know i dont keep in touch much ...i promise to change !

The inspirational ass :  

Mr perfect . inspirational motivator , can irritate the hell outta you , best buddy , confuses you , mystery but in the end you just cant stay without this friend 

bozo , g ...i just summed you up !!

Bff cum foe : 

hate , love , hate , love , fight , more hate , love !!!
The friend who is always around... You know almost every like and dislike ... You love them for what they are but the smallest things about them irritate the hell outta you...!!! Confusing??!! Yes, was meant to be like that...!!!
S.my bff , my shoulder to cry, my partner in crimes , my worst enemy and my best friend as well..I can never thank you enough!

The rock :

This friend redefines friendship . A best friend who never judges , helps you out of any situation , treats you right , calls a spade a spade ..Who will tell when you are right and when you are a bitch !! 

s , you have always been my rock , i know you will always be there !

Tomorrow is the First Sunday of august ..FRIENDSHIP DAY .. Something that has always brought a smile to my face .. Right from my school days when we used to count the number of friendship bands everyone gets to today when I am in that ' omg ! I-am- a-adult ' now stage ! Many call it a marketing gimmick , many claim they don't need a day to celebrate friendship ...for me it's just a day when I thank every friend of mine who has made the year gone by so wonderful , something we often forget to do in this busy life of ours !

Thank you for making me what i am today !! Love each one of you loads !!