flying without wings -- really ??!!

I turned on the television the other day and a program that captured my attention was that in a national news channel it claimed the year gone by  the " year of women " and claimed that today's woman were flying without wings ! that got me wondering - has the year gone by really been the year of woman ?? Has India's crowd changed from a male dominant society to one where woman are given equal importance ??

I guess the answer was yaa..maybe..33 % reservation in parliament ... separate queues in public places , seats reserved in public transport and all that ...but does that really make we are finally treated more than equals or at least equals  ?? i don't think so .....33% reservation in parliament but has anyone thought about all the suffering the ladies have to undergo before they get their contesting ticket from the party .... the money minded , perverted politicians make sure most of these woman politicians undergo their share of torture !! separate queues in public places ...one good thing the government introduced to at least protect the vulnerable woman from those perverts in these places who think they own the women and ass grab would be no offence !! 

seats reserved in public transport ..but can u stop anyone of the men from staring as if you were a piece of meat ?!! 

Its time we change ..time men change ..if  say get them educated and they will treat women with respect !! i ll say no ways !! education doesn't change a thing ....most of the rapist in India have graduated from many of the best colleges in India !! one thing that has to change in men their attitude !! some thing i would say is impossible  ...or lets say , now u cant change the perspective of men all over the wold can u ??!! so lets do what we can  ...a change in the punishment given to these men ...no 14 days in jail and then the bail and then decades of wait till the punishment is given !! lets have separate courts for these who have to give their judgement without a stipulated period time and the punishments should be at least a few years in jail to a death penalty !! its time we put our foot down and make the women feel safe !

The woman of today don't want  to be treated better than the men or expect more privileges than the men ...all we ask is freedom ...freedom to speak her mind and not be told to remain in our limits or maintain our lines...freedom to fight ..fight the injustice ....freedom to live without fear , freedom to fly without wings !! 

college - where else would your parents spend so much for u to have fun ??!

There are very few times when i dunno how to say it or what to talk about it ...it is just one of the tyms ..why am i scared and terrified of the REAL WORLD where life is more than just meeting a deadline for an assignment or writing the same line over and over again in the paper with all the words u ever learnt and still expect to scrape through in the exam ?!! why am i soo admant to not move on when moving on is my only option ? why am i so hesistant to go for a job that could gimme enough money to buy all the stuff i have ever resisted  buying ? why am i the THE amiable person  scared of making new friends ?

I dunno how am i gonna wake up without people banging on my room letting me know dat the bathroom doesn’t have a queue ...or when am i gonna enjoy eating Maggie as much as my midnight meal ....the fighting over u dnt msg me first or forever cribbing about how big a morons ur guys friends are .....or those birthday bumps ...the fun, the laughter, the frolic .....i just know that no matter how many years pass by ...i ll forever stuck wid these memories that can turn any bad day to my best !

The life in the last 4 years have  taught me to live , to smile through my sorrows , to laugh thru my hardships ...to cry myself to sleep when i dnt have a solution and the best part to get up in d morning and find dat my problems have  vanished into thin air ! it has transformed me from a know it all to a person who has learnt to learn from people and adapt to changes. Changes have always been kind to me and i hope the kindness continues....

The time has finally come to take a step forward into the real world and how these 4 years of how i cant wait to get outta college are finally coming to an END ! there will be tyms as we move on in life forward when we would lose touch or get too busy with life then the four years would seem a BLISS ....the will be times when  i would misplace numbers , not call u up for like ages  or tyms when i wouldn’t realise u need me coz i m too busy with life then all u have to do is whack my butt !! and tell me how bigga ass i am ! :P and then lo! Behold ! i promise to get my lazy butt on ur doorstep ! :P

CHEERS TO 4 YRS FUN I LL NEVER FORGET !

TO PEOPLE , FRIENDS AND FOES WHO ARE A VERY IMPORTANT PART OF THE 4 YRS GONE BY !

TO THE LAPTOP, MOBILE AND MAGGIE FOR MAKING THINGS SIMPLE !

TO DAD, MUM WHO KEPT DEPOSITING MONEY INTO MY ACCOUNT !

TO  THE TEACHERS WHO TRIED TO TEACH AND TO TEACHERS WHO GAVE UP TRYING TO TEACH !

TO SMILES , MAGIC AND MIRACLES  THAT KEEP US ALIVE J   

sumtyms all u need is a glance..............

u get up on the wrong side of ur bed ( in my case, i roll around and fall off my bed ! ) , everyone seems to have woken up late today and u have this shitty longgg queue for taking bath ! ( yes, i live in one of those hostels where u have common bathrooms  and u gotta carry ur bucket to the bathroom everyday and where u have to run quiet distance when u have a full bladder ! :p ), u are late , u don't have time for breakfast and all in all totally ur jacked and u couldn't have had a worse day ...... den comes the special someone ...he/she can be ur boyfriend , best friend , friend or just another person in ur life who can light up things ...all is needed is a smile or maybe even a glance and den all world seems ur stage and things don't seem shitty !!!! 

i have always been fortunate to have a lot of people who fit the bill of the special someone ...ready to pull me outta shit , to make me feel instantly better ...dis post dedicated to all those people who have just made me feel less shitty ...( which happens a LOTTT !! ) muah !!!!

you save the world from my mood swings !! :)

life and all d shit !

itz my birthday today !! i m turning 21 !!! itz high time i become mature , smart and all dat but i guess all d efforts in vain ... at 21 ..i m immature and stupid  :p the last one year of my life has been the toughest but i have become a better human being ...thanks to a few close friends of my life !!! 

i have set a few goals for myself ..not exactly goals but a few rules i have to follow , i aint the most sensible person to follow or take advice from but then i have learnt atleast a lill from my mistakes , people and life ! i always ( most of the times !! ) end up making the wrong friends , wrong decision and all that but the consequences of all this have made me into the person i m today , unique from the rest !  so, read through my rules ..hope they help atleast one of u ! 

my rules : 

1. SULK !! SULK ALONE ! 

2.WHEN ONE DOOR CLOSES , THE OTHER OPENS - SEARCH FOR THE OPEN DOOR  INSTEAD OF LINGERING IN FRONT OF THE CLOSED ONE ! 

3.BE LOYAL TO YOUR FRIEND - COME WHAT MAY ,DONT LEAVE LOSE HOPE IN THEM - U LIKED THEM AND MADE FRIENDS AT ONE POINT , THERE IS NO WAY U CAN EVER HATE THEM ! 

4.NEVER GIVE ADVICES !!!!

5.KEEP SMILING - THERE IS ALWAYS A HIGH AFTER A LOW. 

6. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO MAKE MISTAKES AND LEARN SO LEARN FROM OTHERS 

next yr , as i turn 22 ..hopefully i ll b a lill more mature and sensible ...thank you to dum, bozo ,fatty and mr.abu dhafi for helping me understand  what i am !! today , we aren't on the best of terms ..but i know one day we ll be back together as better people ...

happyS endingS

white horse with your prince charming on it ( he seem to be everything a guy u dream off can have , though u have realised that GOD doesnt make edward cullen types anymore - for those who dnt knw hes the forever he-can charm - your- pants off types lead protoginist of twilight series by stephnie meyer)  , violins magically play and der are rose petals raining from the heavens ....bammmm !!! just another " DREAM " .... there goes all these outta the window !! my reality check !! i have always been the hopeless romantic ( blame it on the romantic books i have ever read and all the chic flicks !! ) ...so a firm believer in happy endings and hero being the winner !!!!! ..as years have passed by i have realised there is no such thing called happy endings .....in real life heros keep changing and the happy endings keep getting redefined !!  Yet ,you are gonna see this super cute guy as u walk by and u are like ..."woah !!! another one to my crush list "....den he opens his mouth and  he turns out to be just another LOSER ! where have all the guys gone ?? boys claim to need the " beauty with brains " ....when all they can do is either think about food or u-knw-what !! ...its high time they understand that girls arent going to be impressed by their super low waist jeans that you just pray they dont fall off ...or by their cool bright coloured converse or even wore their peircing !! itz time their is a change in attitude and all the chivalrousness is back or say the MEN ARE BACK !!


..... how on the earth i am suddenly talkin about prince charming and happy endings ...blame it on my mum ....she was just suggeting or letz put it we were fighting about when girls should get married ...specifically she means ME ( poor she !! she tries to find out if i have boyfriend indirectly ...thatz wat she thinks !! :p) ...so it got me thinking what would i want in the my prince charming ...atleast for now ...i ll say i want EDWARD CULLEN charm.....a girl can always HOPE right ??!! :p

MY BEST FRIENDS

A single child - spoilt , loaded with attitude , self obsessed , self centered , selfish the words that often come to a person's mind with a single word !! I , a single child myself have been told the same countless number of times but what people dont realise is that their is always a side to these children that is associated with loneliness . a side which thank fully i never went through .......
Being alone , growing up was i guess never a problem for me ...i learnt how to keep myself occupied , how to play with imaginary characters , how to keep making food for all my dolls and then as i grew old i found my first love , my best friends - MY BOOKS !!! 
The good old days of st' clares, famous fives , secret seven , the mystery series ...all of them ..LOVELY !! ENID BLYTON ROCKSSSS !! ( buzz off from the page to whoever disagrees !! )
I am a very seasonal reader ( to all those who don't know what that means , most of u wont - itz my contribution to crappy English copyright devil ) ...seasonal reader is one who changes the genre ( isn't that for music ...hmmmmm.....i forgot watz itz for books :p) of books every season ....so it all started with " i m a feminist " books in school ...datz all about girls - detectives, bitches, crappy ones ....just any kinda girl then moved on to the no- nonsense type in high school ( strictly non- fiction , self improvement and stuff like that that leads to self actualisation :p ...dnt ask me what all dat means nowww !! ) 
then came college ( to whichever ass who said "10th and 12th standard ...datz all u need to work hard and life is made " especially a nerd would be brillliant doctor friend of mine who kept tirelessly repeating the same dialougue as that was the only motivating factor tht forced me to finish high school ...buzz offff ...u can never stop sloggging in life ...and life is always a BITCH ! ...  ohhh datz for my ranting )  ...whr were we .....................yaaaa college ...college came with saving every penny ...waiting fot the 1st before asking dad to transfer money !! ...so that started my association with indian fiction ...a set of books that are nt given the due importance they deserve and that which are extremely cheap !!!! .... most of them  potray INDIA ...india in itz true sense with a;ll the bollywood masala and rona dhona !! they give u the feel good factor ...which i think is a major part of INDIA ...but as there are 2 sides to a coin ...der are always a set of indian fiction that is boring and gibberish !! 


so, here's an advice to all those bored folks outta there who are searching for some time pass to read ...lay ur hands on one of these cheap hinglish books which mostly have the cheesiest titles ...trust me ...choose the cheesiest title........... YOU WONT BE BORED !! :p

Alas !!! finally ..i have done it !!!!

yay !!!! after years of trying  in vain to get my lazy butt to create a blog , i have done it !!  but......now , the question arises what do i blog about ?? what do people blog about ...after hours of searching online ( thank the good human whoever created the internet !! ) i finally have read every kind of blog from shobha  de's travel blogs to another random homemaker's kitchen receipe blog ...one thing that is common about everything ...people write stuff with PASSION !!
     
          A word which i guess seem to not exist in my dictionary anymore .......so here i am a poor ( still unemployed , dad's money is not mine right ?? )  , confused ( most of my friends ll agree about that now !! ) and lost ( written for the extra masala - JUST FOR THE DRAMATIC EFFECT :p ) 21 year old  asking anyone who's gonna read my blog ....the big question


what the hell do i blog about ??!!